(Stories of Hope, Resiliency and Restoration - English)
Jomar Salvador’s (his real name) pain stems from the deep rift between both sides of the family—his own and his wife’s—who have drifted apart. What was once a harmonious relationship has shattered due to over-familiarity and the constant exchange of hurtful and insulting words.
One day, after a grueling day as a "kargador" at the fish port in Navotas, Jomar returned home, longing for rest. Their home, shared with an extended family, had insufficient space to accommodate everyone. That day, his wife was at the hospital retrieving records for their newborn child. When Jomar entered their room, he found his 14-year-old sister-in-law inside.
According to Jomar, he asked the girl to leave because he needed to rest. However, the girl hesitated, as she was hiding from her parents after cutting classes. Despite Jomar’s request, she stayed in the room while he rested.
To Jomar’s bewilderment, the girl suddenly cried and accused him of molesting her. Jomar tried to explain his side, but none of his in-laws believed him. Even the police doubted his innocence. He was charged with acts of lasciviousness.
Jomar was detained at the Navotas City Jail for a month. In jail, Jomar prayed to God for help, feeling helpless and unheard. As the breadwinner, he was deeply worried about his wife and child.
Then one day, God answered his prayers. He was introduced to PRESO Inc., an organization that helps first-time offenders who are low-risk and financially challenged. Jomar never imagined that an organization like PRESO Inc. existed to help people like him—guilty or not guilty—as long as they saw the potential for positive change.
Jail guards vouched for his character, believing his case aligned with PRESO’s parameters for assisting inmates. With their support, Jomar was bailed out, and his case was eventually dismissed in May 2024.
Now, Jomar works as a "kargador" at a hardware store, taking on side hustles in Divisoria to support his family. He has decided to relocate to Tondo with his family, where they now live in the barracks provided by his new employer for workers. However, his relationship with his in-laws remains strained, with both sides still at odds. Jomar hopes that, one day, the wounds of the past will heal, allowing him to visit them without hesitation.
Despite the ongoing challenges, Jomar is deeply grateful to PRESO Inc. for helping him through such a harrowing experience. He promises to remain a good provider for his child and wife and a dutiful son, striving for peace of mind as he moves forward.
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If you would like to support the PRESO Foundation in providing financial assistance to deserving PDLs, please reach out to the Foundation at 0906-822-1625. Alternatively, you may contact Ms. Nita Silva Mangaser or Sol Baltazar through their Facebook page or Messenger.
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